True, cut daycare/piano/ballet/art...

daughter enjoys reading (she got outstanding rate for language arts as always), we'll borrow more books. i write this down.

like us, she seems to have no talent at art or music, and just do them because we push her ? :O she has strong logics, especially in debating/talking.

she likes chess, a suitable peer kid is hard to find, may go there for another class, write down the kids contact, then...

at other place, we can buy a normal house without a big mortgage. Here, no way. 2 jobs + big mortgage. Maybe we're late for this area at this age.