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Disagree, don't be disagreeable.
- An old adage

How to Disagree Without Being Disagreeable

We all know that a response to someone's viewpoint
like, "That's stupid!" is near the worst end of the
spectrum. Here are a few on the other side. Be aware:
they require you to be sincere and won't work unless
you are.

"That's an interesting viewpoint. You must have a
good reason for thinking that way. Do you mind
telling me what it is?"

"I think I understand what you're saying, and could
you tell me more about how you arrived at your opinion?"

"That's interesting. And I see it somewhat differently.
May I explain?"

"I see what you're saying. I have another way of
looking at it . . ."

There are many more. The point is to respond with
respect, courtesy and honesty.