trust me, you will get choped at the end of 90 days

company is playing by the book, "闹一闹"? how? poor performance and at-will employment, you have no case plus company has given you plenty of time to improve. Resign now, and take some time off, it is best for you. i think your hu*****and's concern is once you are off from the work environment (stay home mommy), it would be very difficult for you to get back in after a while. he wants you to be productive even though like you said your family is not short on money.