我觉得实在不行还是可以解释的

In the worst case, if things don't work out, I can tell my prospect employer that I thought that my hu*****and could relocate shortly after, but it didn't go as I expected, therefore, I chose my family over my job.

On the other hand, even one year of this experience will put me in a good position for other high level jobs.

I totally agree with your impression on me. Maybe others think I'm successful, but I'm not a career oriented person. Family life is everything for me so far. I'm afraid I will regret if I pass up this opportunity.

In fact, this is so hard for me that I was looking for a fortune teller in China 给指点一下。