回复：OK!!!! I promise that I won't reply anything

related to meiying. That is a last one. Just like James said, I only tried to help. I shared my experience to help someone needed help. If anyone thinks my suggestions suck, he/she doesn't need to read them. I came here meaning no harm. I don't want hurt anyone, meanwhile I don't want to be hurt either.

A lot people here appreciated meiying. I think she is a great asset for this forum. But I still have to say, "you are too defensive."