from what i read, he seems nice. that's why you put

"nice" in front of DOB. haha.

maybe talking about your hu*****and every chance you have will help a bit. like, what you and ur hu*****and did in the last weekend. what you and ur hubby are going to do the coming weekend.(like u r going to visit his family in the holiday season) what he did for your house. he's a handy man. he's got promoted recently. u know. things like that.

The guy will catch it.