回复:这些是不是解雇我的信号?
"工作一年多了。进展还好。"
-- How nice!
"1。 我一直做的课题,老板突然不感兴趣了。以前的结果很好,他让放弃。又给了一个新方向。"
-- Have you ever asked him why change the direction?
-- If NO, find a chance to ask, just a simple communication will make it clear.
"2。老板让每个人报上生日,到时庆祝。结果到了我的生日没反应。 后来到了我下面一个人的生日,秘书跟我说老板忙,所以没给你过, 现在补一下。(我留意了一下,老板不忙。)而且补过的时候每个人都用怪异的眼光看着我, party上都不说话,没人说happy birthday.以往有人过生日都很热闹。我并非在意这个party,只是想老板是不是想借此羞辱我,让我主动走呢?"
-- Boss may not be busy, but it is true his computer did remind him that that day was your most important day in the year, so he didn't bought the cake for you in that day. The good thing is he is so nice to remember to celebrate your late birthday. So this celebration is more meaningful than others.
-- If we always looking for the positive side, we will always be happy.
我现在已经抑郁成疾。工作一时不好找。要是他不想马上赶我走,我想缓缓气在找新工作。
-- If you feel some worry, you can frankly ask, not need to be sick just for these virtural thinking.
Wish you get well soon.
Thanks!