(???)回复:please stay where you are now
Qing3 Chi4 Jiao4 la. 少爷 !
A. some people can see 100 pros and cons of a thing, yet still make a wrong decision ( or don't know how to make a right one)
B. some people only see 1 pros and cons of the same thing, yet could make a smartest decision.
i was/am in the Group A) funfortunately.