回复：To all these who want to stay...

Ever heard the word 'identity' and 'identity crisis'?
Not saying personal hygie is not important, but when it makes you over sensitive about your self-image, and when you make *extra* effort just to feel 'you are the same as another group'. You are experiencing identity lost.

As someone stays (not want to stay). I'm always proud to live a very Chinese life. Yes, I volunteer in my kids school, I participate in community services, I do my hair/facial etc. But I don't know about a thing about sports and feel perfectly fine in saying so. -- I live my life and make my choices because who I am, not by how other people judges me.