我们住纽约，两人合计也是三十多万。根本不算富！ property tax $20,000 a year

daycare $3300 a month for two kids, summar camp $8000 for two to cover 7 weeks.  I always feel poor.  Used to have a job with $300,000+ myself, plus wife's income, feel pretty good for one year then lost that job during recession - high income job is very risk, esp. for us Asian who hold those jobs - usually get cut first.