我想你要是静下心来,就能看得到我同别的几个经常对美国

有一些表扬的同学们,都是对极端或是绝对的思维模式是深恶痛绝的.在这个坛子几年下来,还从来没见过任何一位说美国或者美国的制度是完美的.但是,我们天天可以看见,每当中国的某一方面受到批评时,你永远可以看到有两条标准回应:

1. 美国也不是十全十美的,某某年有过某某事.
2. 你到底是何惧心要唱衰中国?

You see the difference?

I don't know what kind of work you do. But you should know the biggest mistake one could make facing criticism is, to bring out or compare to colleagues. You either defend yourself with facts to point out that criticism is unwarranted,or admit your mistake and try to do a better job next time, then move on.