搞不懂为什么绝大多数人对国内的

男人女人有个情人什么的那么深恶痛绝呢？

这并不是中国特有的现象, in the first place.

这样的人我也见了不少，都不是“坏人”（把人简单地分化成好人和坏人本身就很幼稚）我对这种现象持比较宽容的态度，两情相悦的真爱并不代表在一棵树上吊死，反之亦然。

由于生理，心理，社会和经济地位的不同，男人和女人有不同的demands, options, and choices. relationships based on things other than matrimonial/reproductive requirements, be it 感情，利益，甚至金钱, 如果存在，why supress it merely for the concept of the exclusivity of the unadultered love?

从一而终是because of choice, or because of the lack of it. 弱水三千，只取一瓢饮，有几个(男)人能做到？of course, men are like that in love stories, but those are just stories. and the vast majority of bad examples didn't make it to the stories. lol...

大家砸吧，左总绝不还手. lol...