You will learn the truth along the way. Trust and faithfulness..
are truly the foundation of a "Perfect" marriage. However, we all know there is no perfect life, extending to "there is no perfect marriage" either. Which woman thinks she is better than Hillary Clinton? If she could not stop Bill fooling around, what do you expect?
I just put this painful truth upfront for you. Sometimes, you just don't have to find out the truth about your the other part. As long as your family is happy, SMOOTH, just enjoy what you have.
You are still chasing your ideal dream but reality will turn out more cruel. Be prepared and good luck!