Lowering expectation means indifferent to cheating?

I believe mutual trust and faithfulness is the foundation of a marriage. Not cheat is a basic, not a high requirement at all. If my hu*****and cheats on me, chances are the marriage is over and it should be.
If you are not done with dating dif. people or screwing around, why bother to get married?

Hypothetically, I decide to go back to China. Get married at some point. Don't think I can tolerate unfaithfulness. This has nothing to do with how rich the guy is. $ buys him the right to cheat?? Maybe to other women, but I don't think that is me. Not to blame them and I understand they have their reasons/difficulties. Just very sad that my country is so not women/family friendly and it's socially acceptable to cheat.