你这是何苦呢？

岁数不小了(not that there's anything wrong with not being young any more)，还是单身(not that there's anything wrong with that either)，从头创业，somehow at the cost of being someone's (not that there's anything wrong the fact that he's not good looking) "approved girlfriend"?

111说的对，there's something more important thing for you at this stage of your life.

摘一段左总以前写的：

另外说几句跟回国发展有关的，我们的同龄人在中国已经有了非凡的社会经验和经济，人事基础，跟国外的 book smarts 们已经远不在同一个起跑线上。你如果有 expat 的机会，或是能找到一份优厚的工作，左总支持你回国，但如果你是想回国创业的话，你还是悠着点，至少要做好交点学费的准备。商场官场都是无比凶险的地方，看人挣大钱做大官风光无限，但个中甘苦，人心善恶，世态炎凉，不足与外人道，不得于外人知。除非你有别人没有，你会别人不会的东西，比如说会把石头变成金子，把水变成油。