都＂他乡有高薪，故乡有Condo"了，还不幸福， 为啥？

For some people, it might just be a simple matter of middle life crisis. Research result shows that people at age 44 are least happy in their life, regardless whatever achievement level they have.

The frustration and anxiety from a middle life crisis can be expressed in many different ways, and for some people, hanging around in this forum repeating some nonsense might provide just the kind of relief desperatedly needed.

Not that there is anything wrong with that. But innocent people might need to be aware of it: it does not matter if you have a point in the argument, it is the augument itself and the attention to the people who are making the argument that matters.

For those people, there is no difference whether they are in or out of China. Just deal with it, maybe out of WXC, growing some vegitable in the backyard is not a bad alternative.

You will feel much better when you reach 50, trust me.

Listening to those people about HaiGui issues? Come on!