任何问题都有两面性.

1. 你喜欢热爱中餐,不代表你排斥西餐. 西餐也有经典美食. 你的菜单更多样化了.
2. 你酷爱文学? 西方同样文学浩如烟海，博大精深.文学即是人学.
3.他无法和你的亲人交流? 阿Q一下, 这样也省了好多麻烦.再笨嘴苯舌的女婿,经你巧嘴翻译过来,那就花好桃好了, 哈哈...

4. why when you get older you can not talk to your hu*****and because he is not chinese?

There is no absolute answer to it. Some chinese people can have a succesful marriage with western, other can not. It's individual issue.