Love and Marriage

本帖于 2009-07-22 17:19:52 时间, 由版主 大牛哥 编辑

When it comes to love in marriage, it doesn't matter that much whether you have faith in it or not. It's all down to whether you can FIND love in marriage.

Love in a feeling between two ppl. So as a start, it doesn't matter what one person believe or not. Secondly, even if both of you believe in it, but if you ended with the wrong person, you would simply be disappointed again and again. After a few years, your heart hurt, your passion worn away as you get older and older. Seriously, after you reached 30, there's little you believe in. Thirdly, love is a feeling, it can grow stronger or weaker. So it's diffcult to have faith in something that changes from time to time.

On the other hand, if you HAPPEN to FIND love in marriage, then some ppl say, "All right, I believe there's love after all." Other ppl maybe more cautions and say, "Ok, I have love now, but I'm not sure about tomorrow." But at the back of their heart, they don't really care. They are too busy enjoying. Come on, there's nothing in this world that you can hold onto it forever, no matter that's your health, wealther, or intelligence. So what make you think you can hold on to love forever?

All in all, love is a feeling, and ppl feel differently. So don't rely on anybody's theory or experience. Otherwise, you may end up in a terrible situation, or even worse, you may miss someone really great for you.

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200% agree -天外飞砖- 给 天外飞砖 发送悄悄话 天外飞砖 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 07/22/2009 postreply 16:54:20

This one is true -coffeebeans- 给 coffeebeans 发送悄悄话 coffeebeans 的博客首页 (180 bytes) () 07/22/2009 postreply 17:01:49

是的 爱的长短不同 -马大有- 给 马大有 发送悄悄话 马大有 的博客首页 (285 bytes) () 07/22/2009 postreply 17:08:23

周星星的东西很适合你。。。 -coffeebeans- 给 coffeebeans 发送悄悄话 coffeebeans 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 07/22/2009 postreply 17:10:18

他的东西确实寓意很深的,不然能叫星爷。 -马大有- 给 马大有 发送悄悄话 马大有 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 07/22/2009 postreply 17:12:30

你错了,你的爱情超越时空,不受任何宇宙物理定律支配。 -Rafale- 给 Rafale 发送悄悄话 Rafale 的博客首页 (248 bytes) () 07/22/2009 postreply 17:39:25

没有那么严重 既然人生是白驹过隙 那么爱情比人生长 有什么不可能? -马大有- 给 马大有 发送悄悄话 马大有 的博客首页 (43 bytes) () 07/22/2009 postreply 17:43:48

爱情啊…… -非典型性淑女- 给 非典型性淑女 发送悄悄话 (76 bytes) () 07/22/2009 postreply 18:13:30

哇。。彪捍 -绝不浪费青春- 给 绝不浪费青春 发送悄悄话 绝不浪费青春 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 07/22/2009 postreply 18:18:54

ZT, hehe, from a online fiction -非典型性淑女- 给 非典型性淑女 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 07/22/2009 postreply 18:26:06

爱情这东西也靠 -绝不浪费青春- 给 绝不浪费青春 发送悄悄话 绝不浪费青春 的博客首页 (24 bytes) () 07/22/2009 postreply 18:30:22

love is not a benchmark for marriage at all, hehe -非典型性淑女- 给 非典型性淑女 发送悄悄话 (49 bytes) () 07/22/2009 postreply 18:43:41

那俺刚才白崇拜了..感情是摘抄语录呀 不过还是很有水平的. -hl1108- 给 hl1108 发送悄悄话 hl1108 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 07/22/2009 postreply 18:57:47

有个性! -马大有- 给 马大有 发送悄悄话 马大有 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 07/22/2009 postreply 18:23:46

咋你一点评就那么到位涅 -hl1108- 给 hl1108 发送悄悄话 hl1108 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 07/22/2009 postreply 18:55:33

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