Bo Xilai's name reminds me of the word capaBility, while to seek its opposite Gu Kailai--cooperative at least her temporary cooperation with Heywood, who was murdered being not so cooperative later with his partner. The good example for being cooperative is probably Zhou Enlai, who is said that has no personal enemies.
This pair of words also suits to old Chinese saying:”Less capability for a woman is her virtue :)". Being less capable, she is maybe more tolerable. It may explain why a superb artist ended in a tragic way while mediocre ones survived. When I was young I had no idea of "he2guang1 tong2 chen2--to mingle well with others", which caused deep scars in my life.
In Chinese ren2--benevolence and ren3--tolerance are homonyms with some sort of reason. Ren2 in Chinese is simply written as number two with a person on side. This word and others like love, is ignored by the name of feudalistic idea in mainland China. This is part of to be blamed for Gu Kailai's incident.
You noticed three Lais in names above represent polarized ideas of two generations. A successful art road is nothing than this one: " Ji4wang3kai1lai2: carry forward the cause and forge ahead the future".
