raised by somebody else,that guilt is even worse than abortion, as to my personal opinion.
If I have to say abortion is a short-term pain, giving your own child to somebody else is a life-long guilt huanting in your mind.
想想所有的孩子机会都是平等的啊,为何一个孩子可以高高兴兴的在父母的怀抱里,要这要那,,另一个亲生子只是晚几年出生,却没法跟自己的亲生父母在一起,而是被别人养着。No,big No No.