I have different opinion

来源: Crystaldowns 2011-07-07 07:56:57 [] [博客] [旧帖] [给我悄悄话] 本文已被阅读: 0 次 (1567 bytes)
回答: 关于bully帖子一些想法ceciliaz11202011-07-07 07:03:07

First of all, if parents anticipate the challenges their kids will be facing when they first go to school, why don't they do something early on to help the kids to minimize the impact? For example, instead of keeping them home in a mono-cultural environment till Kindergarden, they should have sent the kids to pre-school or daycare much sooner to immerse in a multi-cultural learning environment. Or the least you can do is to teach them English, so they can communicate with their peers.

A friend of mine kept her daugher at home with the grandparents till Kindergarden, the girl didn't speak English at all and was seriously challenged in school, both socially and academically.  Till this day, although she is in junior high and obviously can speak English well, she is still somewhat socially impaired.

Speaking of language issues, "作为英语不是母语的族裔来说,孩子开始上幼儿园就会遇到语言问题。" I don't agree with this statement. English may not be your first language, but for kids born and raised in this country, English is their first language. This is not an option. Their parents' language can only be their second language, like it or not.

A lot of Chinese parents arbitrarily consider their children "Chinese", without knowing this way of thinking could impose a lot of challenges and even damages in their future lives. The moment we decide to raise our children here in this country, we should recognize that they are Chinese Americans and maybe that would save a lot of struggles and battles. 

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I don't know why, I always like your posts and opinions -老树发芽- 给 老树发芽 发送悄悄话 (75 bytes) () 07/07/2011 postreply 08:37:41

:=)) just my 2 cents -Crystaldowns- 给 Crystaldowns 发送悄悄话 Crystaldowns 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 07/07/2011 postreply 08:41:50

Well said! -vest2005- 给 vest2005 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 07/07/2011 postreply 11:32:05

CO:Well said! -Minniemom08- 给 Minniemom08 发送悄悄话 Minniemom08 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 07/07/2011 postreply 13:44:10

Agree! -快乐就好运- 给 快乐就好运 发送悄悄话 (627 bytes) () 07/07/2011 postreply 17:23:44

是啊,在中国人家长大很累:)) -Crystaldowns- 给 Crystaldowns 发送悄悄话 Crystaldowns 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 07/07/2011 postreply 19:27:37

同意 -ceciliaz1120- 给 ceciliaz1120 发送悄悄话 (700 bytes) () 07/07/2011 postreply 19:03:26

总结的好!一个一个慢慢聊,我的观点肯定非主流, -Crystaldowns- 给 Crystaldowns 发送悄悄话 Crystaldowns 的博客首页 (168 bytes) () 07/07/2011 postreply 19:24:43

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