I 就抱着度假、休闲的目的, so I don't want to go to so many places in 1 trip

I want to就抱着度假、休闲的目的, so I don't want to go to so many places in 1 trip. I am trying to decide if we will go to 丽江 or 西双版纳. If we go by ourself (just 2 places for 1 week), we will be more relax. So I am trying to decide if it's worth to go to 大理 & 丽江. My older son said he doesn't want to get up so early in the trip. He just heard this from his uncle (they got up at 3-4am in their tour trip).