回复：不能说社会对自己有压迫。。

example --

one woman. 40. looking for a 35 year old man, handsome, tall, you say she needs to " 有自知之明".
why?

one man, 40. looking for woman. what age he would look into? tell me. if he says in between a 49, 42 and 35 year old women, he would chose the 35 year old. do you think he is unusual? or he'd rather choose a 30 or 24 year old?

another example--in China, if you are a woman, you look for a job. will the ad say, "under 35 years old".
is there such thing in US?is there such thing for men?

in this forum, once a while, you see man saying, they miss the time they can get a virgin.

did you ever see this comment from a woman? ever?

you would say, OK, these are just natural, they are all reasonable.

really? think about 100 years ago, what was reasonable for women, and how ridiculous they seem now.

too much to say. not sure if you would even think about it. but, i put it here for others to see, to think about.

所有跟帖： 

• 有自知之明我更多是从生理家庭关系上考虑的。。。 -贫农:- ♂ (222 bytes) () 07/19/2010 postreply 21:19:06

• 不要再争论拉，烦死啦 -塞上孤星- ♀ (130 bytes) () 07/19/2010 postreply 21:33:59

• 贫农心理有些恐慌。 -黑衣女侠- ♀ (28 bytes) () 07/20/2010 postreply 02:07:08

• 你看得准... -贫农:- ♂ (66 bytes) () 07/20/2010 postreply 05:21:05

• 那往上找大20岁的就会幸福？ -黑衣女侠- ♀ (100 bytes) () 07/20/2010 postreply 05:26:58

• 不对... -贫农:- ♂ (122 bytes) () 07/20/2010 postreply 05:31:12

• 你不能把自己的思维强加到大家伙的脑袋上 -黑衣女侠- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/20/2010 postreply 05:35:45

• 我不强加,就像有人非要变女人, 拦也拦不住... -贫农:- ♂ (66 bytes) () 07/20/2010 postreply 05:39:04

• 你还别在这乱扣帽子，我是路见不平，拔刀相助 -黑衣女侠- ♀ (86 bytes) () 07/20/2010 postreply 05:45:11

• 我好吃绿草... -贫农:- ♂ (68 bytes) () 07/20/2010 postreply 05:58:26

• 男人为什么不能被当作玩物？ -黑衣女侠- ♀ (56 bytes) () 07/20/2010 postreply 06:09:42

• 你说的部分对吧 -贫农:- ♂ (186 bytes) () 07/20/2010 postreply 05:16:37

• I respect everyone's choice. To Poor farmer and Seven and Chicke -塞上孤星- ♀ (365 bytes) () 07/20/2010 postreply 07:54:19