I used to have the exact feelings. My in-laws were here

来源: h1b0711 于 2010-04-17 17:00:25 [] [旧帖] [给我悄悄话] 阅读数 : 0 (878 bytes)

when I had the baby. My pp thinks she mainly should take care of baby and my gg takes care of cooking. It's a big help but i was very depressed. The new-born sleeps a lot my pp will sit there for hours either eating snacks or reading papers. I will be busy with pumping and cleaning. When the baby was awake i was the main one taking care of the bb too. I don't feel they (especially pp) behaved like they are the family. They are here again now. I have adjusted my expectation. At the same time I am more upfront and straightforward with what I want and what I don't like. Last time I was afraid any disagreement will cause unpleasant feelings but i was in so much misery. Life is too short to suffer this much. We appreciate their help but don't force yourself to accommodate them too much. If you feel they should give you a hand, don't be too shy...太莫不开自己太遭罪。

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