I agree with what you said about "eco friendly life style", alth

I myself am probably guilty of all those sins:)) To me only sustainable measures are worth implementing, for example, I now take my own bag to grocery shopping, I cut all my magazine subion...but I can never set the temp at 55F in my house or "reuse" water...I try to do what I can to help the earth, cutting it down to the bare bones is not an option.

Anyways, what I am trying to say is that taking things to extreme is never a good idea, let alone imposing it on others (including your own family). Nobody has the rights to do so! If the hu*****and indeed loves his wife and kids, how come he never made any compromises?

In term of sex life, don't even get me started:)) Men are simple creatures, if he is not sexually attracted to his wife, he simply doesn't love her. You could argue that he loves her but physically incapable, well, in that case, he would have figured out some way a looooong time ago. You could also argue that he made a baby with her, oh well, sperm doner doesn't make him a good lover or hu*****and.

I'm very straight forward today because I feel so bad that she has to suffer through so much and for so long. To marry this guy was a big mistake, to not leave him would be a huge one!