marriage is not a job. you change it when get bored,

or find a better one. I don't want to analyze or judge the reason of people having affair. i just believe if i find out my lg loves or have sex with someone else, regardless he still loves me, this marriage is meaningless. because if i know he also loves someone else before i get married, i would never marry him. so, why should I tolerate his affair? this marriage is end. if he still loves me and want another chance, then he has to start from the beginning and maybe i will marry him twice.