what'll u do when found out spouse was cheating?

ever since dating, i told lg i have zero tolerance on cheating. he kept asking me this Q, like a joke, or waiting for me to say "don't care" one day. since i saw so many cheating stories in wxc, i just wonder myself. ok, my choices:
1. sad, but just never see him again.
2. screaming and crying so no one can live peacefully
3. call brothers/pals/hitman to beat him up
4. beat her up
5. pretend don't know
6. hire a private eye and a lawyer
7. storm to his office or parents' home to scream at him
8. do something so he can change his mind
9. throw his things on the streets and get a lawyer
10. confront him and suggest a marriage councile
11. confront him and let him choose between the other woman and me

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• 生活中不可能没有谎言 -lavendar~- ♀ (66 bytes) () 07/29/2008 postreply 09:17:30

• right. I only mean spouse has an affair -fpxjz- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/29/2008 postreply 09:26:02

• 外遇也未必就不可原谅 -lavendar~- ♀ (108 bytes) () 07/29/2008 postreply 10:06:49

• marriage is not a job. you change it when get bored, -fpxjz- ♀ (497 bytes) () 07/29/2008 postreply 12:00:55

• faint....this is not like you ^^ -云是天上的花- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/29/2008 postreply 12:37:42

• yeh. i won't do all those things. i hope i'll have -fpxjz- ♀ (259 bytes) () 07/29/2008 postreply 12:57:05

• i had friend went through all that .... -云是天上的花- ♀ (237 bytes) () 07/29/2008 postreply 13:07:14

• 5. pretend don't know -我叫瓦伦铁诺- ♂ (0 bytes) () 07/29/2008 postreply 14:13:14