your problem is lazyness. your happiness= someone

to depend on. for the sake of your kid, stop that. it is useless to confront a man for his affair when he already denied. you don't need to decide if you want to divorce or not. you only need to do three things first:1) stop asking your parents to spy on your hu*****and! don't let your family involve into your relationship with your hu*****and. it is your life, your feeling, your decision. how do you expect him to respect you and your family when he knew he was being searched and watched constantly. 2) learn to control your own life. learn to live indepently, pay attention how to take care daily bussiness. 3) ask your parents to take care of your kid, not his. in a year, you should take the kid back with you.
remember, your marriage is depended on your feeling, not his. if you have no trust on him, and constantly look down at him, that is the time to quit.

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• 大顶。我觉得这类故事的女主角大多不够独立，但也有的过于独立。 -ski_kid- ♀ (85 bytes) () 06/04/2008 postreply 13:26:16

• in case of divorce,kid need to be under your "control" -fpxjz- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/04/2008 postreply 13:33:11

• yes,very yes much -garyline89- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/04/2008 postreply 13:35:24

• 谢谢你很致命的劝告，我会参考你的意见去做的。多谢！ -十一月狗妈妈- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/04/2008 postreply 13:29:04