you小时候拉过稀, because you momy couldn't afford milk, and gave you too much water. and your 闺女这两天也在拉稀, because you gave her too much bad milk. You momy's fault or your fault?
Just Kidding. I understand your point. you think It is part of growing up. But the first is entitled to have many more mis-steps, the second (copycat) should have much fewer mis-steps bexause it has the first as mirror.
By the way, 安贝儿 is your ID, not your name.