Maybe you can do a destination wedding in a

romantic place first. Quiet and peaceful for just the two of you, enjoying the wedding/honeymoon. You can host a reception any time afterward. I highly recommand Hawaii. You can get a package deal (from instruction on getting marriage license to cake/flower to photographer/vediographer to wedding location rental) with a wedding planner there. They will also book a beatucian for your hair and makeup (your hubby's as well). The wedding dinner serservation can be done through them as well.