Don't come. I believe that you will 后悔sooner or later, because your career lief really have to begin from zero. Meanwhile, you may damage your wife's carrer. Would she like to become a full-time housewife in USA? Life is not so simple in USA. Most of Chinese in USA just 对国内的亲戚朋友报喜不报忧而已。如果凭很多中国人在USA的努力,我想我们在中国会过的更好。