"I broke up with my ex-boyfriend about 4 years ago and I went back to China 3 years ago and found out that I still loved him. But he did not love me any more..."
Your ex did not love you even starting from 3 yrs ago, when you were still in love with him. So how stupid you were to call him up right now, after 3 yrs later. You think men really have a good memory and a soft heart as women do..???