回复：儿女倒是没被克扣，只是家比较简朴点...

When I talk about benefits for kids, I am not talking about just leaving money or just buying material things for your kids.
I am talking about spend reasonable amount of money to create a good environment for the kids to enjoy and experience life. From home living, decoration, restaurant experiences, traveling to gain knowledge and cultrue difference to variety of life experiences.

Have you ever thought about what your kids is missing in their life when you are frugual to yourself?

When you spend money, do you think how expensive it is or you think about how much experience my kids will gain from it and therefore benefit from it?