高科技父母本身基因就往这边偏 -- 偏自闭症?

Not sure where you got this conclusion from, there is no research so far shows 高科技父母 has a higher tendency to have kids on the spectrum. Do you really know what is the core deficit of Autism? 宅或者性格孤僻 is not autism at all, instead it has strict diagnosic criteria. There are kids on the spectrum who are super smart, but many others are not. And as the other read pointed out, Autism and ADD are not mutually exclusive at all. Many kids on the spectrum have ADD/ADHD.