最近看到一篇报道, 在2010年,一所很有名的 Collge of William and Mary 大学,有三个学生自杀 (学生总人数八千多)。学生自杀,可能有情感关系,经济问题,family issues, 或学业问题而引起。
Parents, relatives, teachers, and resident assistants should pay close attention to student’s emotional changes and talk to them often. In all US universities, there are about 1100 student suicide per year, and suicide is the second leading cause of death among college students.
We as Chinese parents and first generation of immigrants always push our son’s or daughter’s academic performances to extreme and put grades as our top priority and as our bragging rights if our kids get into top universities. In addition, we Chinese parents ignore our kids’ interest in art, music, or teaching, and select just a few majors with highly paid professional future such as law, medicine, finance/business (especially merge and acquisition).
To make sure your kids have a good emotional support, there are a few suggestions from experts: spot severe depression early, do not have over-load in classes, seek professional help early. Many colleges have psychological consoling; have a group of kid friends who can provide support for each other. Give permission to have girl friend or boy friend in high school to learn and gain dating experience, but prohibits sexual relationship in high school. If Chinese kids did not have dating experience in high school, it might become emotionally wrecked or disastrous when they meet and break up with girls/boys in college (similar to early vaccination in grade school, middle school and high school ages).
If you want to learn more about suicide rate, visit the web site:
http://www.suicide.org/suicide-statistics.html
U.S. Suicide Statistics (2005)
Actual Suicides
1.3% of all deaths are from suicide.
On average, one suicide occurs every 16 minutes.
Suicide is the eleventh leading cause of death for all Americans.
Suicide is the third leading cause of death for young people aged 15-24 year olds.
(1st = accidents, 2nd = homicide)
Suicide is the second leading cause of death for 25-34 year olds.
Suicide is the second leading cause of death among college students.
More males die from suicide than females.
(4 male deaths by suicide for each female death by suicide.)
More people die from suicide than from homicide.
(Suicide ranks as the 11th leading cause of death; Homicide ranks 13th.)
There were over 800,000 suicide attempts in 2005
Rank | State | Number | Rate |
1 | Alaska | 155 | 23.6 |
2 | Montana | 175 | 18.9 |
2 | Nevada | 440 | 18.9 |
4 | New Mexico | 356 | 18.7 |
5 | Wyoming | 88 | 17.4 |
6 | Colorado | 797 | 17.3 |
7 | Idaho | 236 | 16.9 |
8 | West Virginia | 285 | 15.7 |
9 | Utah | 377 | 15.6 |
10 | Oregon | 555 | 15.5 |
11 | Arizona | 880 | 15.3 |
12 | Vermont | 93 | 15.0 |
13 | South Dakota | 112 | 14.5 |
14 | Oklahoma | 506 | 14.4 |
15 | Florida | 2,389 | 13.7 |
16 | Kansas | 370 | 13.5 |
16 | Kentucky | 560 | 13.5 |
18 | Tennessee | 792 | 13.4 |
18 | Washington | 830 | 13.4 |
20 | Arkansas | 361 | 13.1 |
21 | Maine | 171 | 13.0 |
22 | Missouri | 715 | 12.4 |
23 | Mississippi | 350 | 12.1 |
24 | North Carolina | 1,027 | 12.0 |
24 | Wisconsin | 662 | 12.0 |
24 | Alabama | 541 | 12.0 |
27 | Louisiana | 537 | 11.9 |
28 | Iowa | 343 | 11.6 |
29 | Ohio | 1,319 | 11.5 |
29 | South Carolina | 482 | 11.5 |
29 | North Dakota | 73 | 11.5 |
32 | Pennsylvania | 1,410 | 11.4 |
33 | Indiana | 704 | 11.3 |
34 | Delaware | 93 | 11.2 |
35 | Virginia | 828 | 11.1 |
-- | Total | 32,439 | 11.1 |
36 | Georgia | 973 | 10.9 |
36 | Michigan | 1,098 | 10.9 |
38 | Minnesota | 524 | 10.3 |
39 | New Hampshire | 133 | 10.2 |
39 | Texas | 2,300 | 10.2 |
41 | Nebraska | 166 | 9.5 |
42 | California | 3,368 | 9.4 |
43 | Hawaii | 116 | 9.2 |
44 | Maryland | 500 | 9.0 |
45 | Connecticut | 294 | 8.4 |
46 | Illinois | 1,028 | 8.1 |
47 | Rhode Island | 85 | 7.9 |
48 | New Jersey | 597 | 6.9 |
49 | Massachusetts | 425 | 6.6 |
50 | New York | 1,187 | 6.2 |
51 | District of Columbia | 33 | 6.0 |
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