to sunshineCA JJ, my way to control kid's game

I just read your story, and here is my way. though my way is too later for your son, just to share a little of my experience. :-) my son is 5.5 years older now, I began to introduce simple game to him half year ago. at first he likes the game very much,  I set a limit of 10 mins for him but he will be bery angry when the time is out. I insist the rule every time and tell him how harmful the game is if he played longer. Now he still play game 10-20 mins each day, but he will ask my allowance before he play, and when I say stop, he will stop playing. I am hoping that to let my son know how to control himself early, he will be much easier to control himself later.

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• Very good -naive2- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/03/2012 postreply 11:14:37

• nice. I usually send my 4-year-old to clean the trash if she doe -sweetptt- ♂ (0 bytes) () 08/03/2012 postreply 11:45:22

• doesn't listen. -sweetptt- ♂ (0 bytes) () 08/03/2012 postreply 11:45:48

• 4岁就到垃圾。甜薯也太黄世仁了吧。 -zj071- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/03/2012 postreply 11:47:51

• 咱地主得兢兢业业不是。我的女儿做事像模像样。 -sweetptt- ♂ (491 bytes) () 08/03/2012 postreply 11:56:45

• 咱俩攀个亲家吧。俺儿子10月6岁，家里财不多，所以以后是你女儿说了算。 -zj071- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/03/2012 postreply 11:59:10

• 谁说了算和钱多钱少没关系。 -texastrader- ♂ (89 bytes) () 08/03/2012 postreply 12:02:08

• tt说的有道理。枪杆子里出政权。 -zj071- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/03/2012 postreply 12:11:07

• 已经有人要跟我攀亲家了。不好意思改了。 -sweetptt- ♂ (0 bytes) () 08/03/2012 postreply 12:02:10

• 再生一个。。。 -HappyWed- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/03/2012 postreply 12:10:59

• 男未婚女未嫁的有什么关系。 -zj071- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/03/2012 postreply 12:11:56

• 支持公平竞争。不得垄断。 -texastrader- ♂ (0 bytes) () 08/03/2012 postreply 12:16:59

• 难道你儿子也想加入竞争？ -千里66- ♂ (0 bytes) () 08/03/2012 postreply 16:40:28

• 不想。有兴趣的人可以去竞争啊 -texastrader- ♂ (0 bytes) () 08/03/2012 postreply 23:32:59

• 唉，等他到15岁你再看吧。。。 -mickey222- ♀ (75 bytes) () 08/03/2012 postreply 11:57:25

• 有道理，五六岁的时候是听话的时候。 -texastrader- ♂ (25 bytes) () 08/03/2012 postreply 11:58:55

• yes, that is possible. -wait..- ♀ (122 bytes) () 08/03/2012 postreply 12:02:36

• 你这个shared有点早，太阳姐姐的孩子16了吧，你孩子还不到6岁，你的经验对她不会有用 -mickey222- ♀ (33 bytes) () 08/03/2012 postreply 13:25:38

• 六岁的时候就是小狼找头狼的时候。但每只小狼有一天会觉得他也可以是头狼。 -sweetptt- ♂ (0 bytes) () 08/03/2012 postreply 12:03:48

• 每只小狼有一天会觉得他也可以是头狼。说得好！ -千里66- ♂ (0 bytes) () 08/03/2012 postreply 17:08:17

• spoke too soon. -tgifriday- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/03/2012 postreply 12:19:32

• 谢MM。这方法小时候见效，15岁的儿子，牛脾气，只能靠疏导的办法。 -SunshineInCA- ♀ (192 bytes) () 08/03/2012 postreply 14:24:19

• 对，每个小孩都不一样，要根据各自的特点去疏通引导 -wait..- ♀ (49 bytes) () 08/03/2012 postreply 19:06:17