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National Orgasm Day: 15 things you never knew about climaxing

 

 

 

 

As a physical phenomenon, when you have an orgasm, your heart beats faster and your breathing gets quicker. But there's so much more

 

 

 

 

 
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Get down: National Orgasm Day is a celebration of the climax for men and women
 

Orgasms are very popular - hence today being named an annual celebration.

But while National Orgasm Day is bound to be popular, some are still not certain of what exactly they entail.

When you have an orgasm, your heart beats faster and your breathing gets quicker and heavier, says the NHS.

But from this list, there are so many more reasons to have orgasms - and so much more to learn about them.

People who orgasm more times look younger

 

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Alone or together: A good sex life is second only to exercise in keeping people looking young

 

Dr. David Weeks, a British consultant clinical psychologist and former head of old age psychology at the Royal Edinburgh Hospital, surveyed 3,500 people and found those who had more orgasms looked younger.

A vigorous sex life was the second-most important determinant of how young a person looked.

Only physical activity proved more important than sex in keeping aging at bay.

2. Climaxing is a great natural stress reliever

 

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Anxiety attack: If you're feeing wound up, you want to get some oxytocin on the go

 

When we orgasm, the hormone oxytocin is released from nerve cells in the hypothalamus into the bloodstream and this molecule, affectionately known as the “love molecule”, helps people feel warm and fuzzy and induces feelings of optimism, increased self-esteem and trust.

Studies have also shown that a rise in oxytocin levels can relieve pain including from headache, cramps and overall body aches.

Climaxing helps tackle insomnia

 

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Wide awake: But orgasms can help to tackle insomnia

 

While (anecdotally) sleepiness after orgasm is more associated with men than women, it can actually similarly affect both sexes.

Our brains release a cocktail of chemicals upon climax, which include oxytocin and vasopressin. These chemicals are associated with releases of melatonin, which helps regulate your sleep.

Birthgasms exist - and woman have them

 

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Timing is everything: Apparently it's possible to have an orgasm giving birth - called a birthgasm

 

Literally an orgasm when you're giving birth, it may seem like the furthest thing from your mind, but Orgasmic Childbirth, a film by childbirth educator Debra Pascali-Bonaro says labour is sexual and that pleasure during it is "a neglected human right."

There are masturbation world records

 

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Northing better to do: Longest time spent masturbating to orgasm is 6 hours 30 minutes for a woman

 

The world record for the longest time spent masturbating to orgasm is 6 hours 30 minutes for a woman, and 8 hours 30 minutes for a man.

There was no details specifying the erotic material they were using as a stimulus.

 

 

Death becomes her - if she's really into it

 

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Careful now: Some women faint when they climax

 

Some women faint when they climax and, in rare cases, have had heart failure and died.

Coregasms are a thing, too

 

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Core blimey: A coregasm is an exercise-induced orgasm

 

A coregasm is an exercise-induced orgasm, most widely reported to occur during core work.

First discussed through anecdotal accounts in 1953, sexologist Alfred Kinsey wrote in Sexual Behavior in the Human Female that 5% of women he spoke with mentioned experiencing orgasms during exercise.

Semen has antidepressant properties

 

Girls guide to better sex
Get happy: Semen can have antidepressant properties

 

A study from the State University of New York found that women who regularly have unprotected sex are less depressed.

It seems semen contains a hefty cocktail of molecules including mood-elevating estrogen and oxytocin, cortisol, melatonin, anti-depressant prolactin, thyrotropin releasing hormone and serotonin.

Orgasms boost the immune system

 

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Feel better: Ogasms are proven to have a positive effect on the immune system

 

According to the British Medical Journal, there's a strong correlation between orgasms and mortality rates.

Those who orgasm two times a week or more can add up to eight years on to their life. Apparently it boosts the immune system, heart health and brain power.

So orgasms make us not only look younger, they help us to live longer too.

Men and women’s orgasm contractions both occur at 0.8 second intervals

 

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Get into a rhythm: Simultaneous climaxes occur at regular intervals

 

Most couples tend not to orgasm together during coitus, with the vast majority of females, 69%, stating they rarely or never orgasm from intercourse alone while 75% of males do according to the LELO global sex survey.

It’s widely known more than two thirds of women prefer clitoral stimulation, but did you know that when men and women do reach climax, their orgasmic contractions both occur at 0.8 second intervals.

You can train yourself to have a better orgasm

 

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Watch and learn: You can train your body to have better orgasms

 

The muscles that contract during orgasm are called PC muscles, a hammock-like structure that supports your pelvic organs.

Kegel exercises train this set of muscles, and offer well-known benefits such as better bladder control

However, in both men and women, performing regular Kegels can increase the intensity and frequency of orgasms as well

Dr Ian Kerner, author of She Comes First says: “Your intimate muscles are like any other muscle: their power and efficiency improve with a regular work out.”

There are climaxing creatures in the animal kingdom

 

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Animal magic: Rabbits are suspected to have climaxed as are ferrets

 

It's still unproven whether female animals have orgasms - but according to a researcher at The Kinsey Institute, rabbits and ferrets do.

Apparently a film of two ferrets mating showed, "by the expression on the face that an orgasm did occur".

Some women could orgasm once every 0.6 minutes

 

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Female focus: Some women can climax up to 100 times in one hour

 

Sex researchers Cauthery and Cole, authors of The Fundamentals Of Sex, have claimed that it's possible for some women to orgasm up to 100 times in an hour.

The average speed of male ejaculation is 28 mph

 

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Speed games: The average ejaculation moves pretty fast

 

Which means they're travelling faster that Usain Bolt (just) - but once sperm enter the vagina, they slow down.

It takes 5 minutes to travel the 6 inches to the cervix and can take up to 72 hours to reach an egg, says Mark Elliot, director of the Institute for Psychological and Sexual Health in Columbus, Ohio.

Usain Bolt on the other hand has a top speed of just 27.78mph.

Orgasms get better with age

 

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Training is everything: The older you get, the better orgasms can be

 

The LELO Global Sex Survey shows only 4% of females are fully satisfied with their climax and only 31% orgasm during intercourse.

But the older women get, the more satisfaction they report, with more than 75% of those over 60 claiming their satisfaction is better than ever before, and more claim to orgasm during intercourse.

http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/weird-news/national-orgasm-day-15-things-6172778

 

 



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性爱」高潮益于健康之15大秘密,鲜为人知!
今日新闻网:15件关于高潮的好处 你所不知的秘密!

对于保守的东方人来说,「性爱」一直都是件羞于说出口、被讨论的事,但在欧美,他们却在当地时间的7月31日迎来一年一度的「全国高潮日」(National Orgasm Day),而英国《镜报》也为此整理出15件关于高潮的好处、你所不知道的事。

        1. 高潮越多次看起来越年轻。

 

  2. 高潮是最自然的纾压方式。


  3. 高潮有助于解决失眠。


  4. 生产时的高潮是存在的。


  5. 自慰最久才产生高潮的世界纪录:女性花了6时30分自慰才高潮;男性花8时30分才高潮。


  6. 有些女人高潮过后会晕倒,甚至有少数例子会在高潮过后因引发心脏疾病「爽死」。


  7. 运动也会引发高潮,尤其是「核心运动」最容易引发。


  8. 精液含有抗忧鬱物质。


  9. 高潮能增强免疫系统。


  10. 男女在做爱时,每隔0.8秒就会发生1次性高潮。


  11. 男人和女人都可以藉由凯格尔运动(又称骨盆运动)增加高潮的强度、次数。


  12. 动物界的高潮王:兔子和雪貂。


  13. 有些女人每36秒就会有1次高潮。


  14. 男人射精的时速是每小时45公里。


  15. 年纪越大,越能体会高潮的美好。


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UK’s National Orgasm Day Sheds Light On Benefits Of Sexual Climax       
          

 

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Couple in bed

It seems the pleasures obtained from sexual activity are so great, there’s even a special day set aside for it in the UK. Dubbed appropriately National Orgasm Day, it highlights the health and psychological benefits experienced, and a sex therapist has given a lowdown on exactly why orgasms are so darn good for us.

 

While National Orgasm Day might sound like a bit of a joke or a PR stunt by a sex toy company, and the Twittersphere naturally had a field day, the orgasm is so much more than a moment of sheer pleasure it seems. It also greatly improves our health, can keep us looking younger, and even make us live longer.

The actual experience of an orgasm can be different from person to person, but everyone agrees that the intense pleasure from experiencing an orgasm is wonderful indeed. However, for those women who do not experience this climax to a sexual encounter, it can also cause much anxiety and stress.

Sometimes we are so worried about actually achieving an orgasm, especially at the same time as our partner, we actually forget to relax and simply enjoy the experience of touch and sexual pleasure.

Like in the movie When Harry Met Sally, some women are known to fake an orgasm purely to calm their partner’s concern, but that is not the answer. What can help, of course, is to let your partner know exactly what gives you pleasure, and they will be sure to want to help.

According to an article in the Independent by Victoria Lehmann, sexual and relationship therapist and adviser to the Sexual Advice Association, when a person, male or female, cannot achieve orgasm, the type of sexual dysfunction is called anorgasmia.

Experts estimate that around 4.7 percent of women suffer from this, although little research has been carried out. Occasionally, we are worried that our children or other people might hear the noise of our love making, which has a drastic effect on the possibilities of orgasm.

Men get worried that they have failed in some way if their partners don’t achieve the finality required. But rarely do we speak to each other about our concerns and worries.

If you don’t think about it, maybe it will come. What sex therapists say is the most important part of the sexual act is to forget about having an orgasm, relax and focus on all the wonderful sensations and pleasurable feelings and eventually the much-wanted orgasm can follow.

Whether you are currently experiencing orgasms on a regular basis or not, the experts behind National Orgasm Day list the following benefits achieved from the pleasurable experience.

Besides speeding up our breathing and giving us a cardiac workout, orgasms have all kinds of other effects on our health. According to Dr. David Weeks, a British consultant clinical psychologist, the Royal Edinburgh Hospital surveyed 3,500 people and made the discovery that those who achieved orgasm looked younger. However, he did add that physical activity proved more important than sex in keeping a young appearance.

The act of experiencing an orgasm releases the hormone oxytocin, known affectionately as the “love molecule,” which instantly makes people feel warm and fuzzy, almost like a natural anti-depressant. Experts reckon that a rise in oxytocin levels can also relieve pain, including that headache the wife had prior to you convincing her to have sex.

Besides oxytocin, another chemical called vasopressin is released, and both chemicals are associated with the release of melatonin, which can often help in sleep disorders. That pleasurable release can make you snooze like an infant.

The Mirror quotes from a study run by the State University of New York which showed that women who experience unprotected sex on a regular basis are less depressed.

It turns out semen contains a magical cocktail of anti-depressant chemicals like estrogen, oxytocin, cortisol, and melatonin, along with the anti-depressant prolactin, thyrotropin, and serotonin. Isn’t nature just wonderful?

Last, but by no means least, as National Orgasm Day closes for another year, the British Medical Journal states that there is a strong correlation between orgasms and mortality rates. They calculate that people who orgasm twice a week or more can add around eight years to their lives. This is due to the fact that the act boosts the immune system and improves brain and heart power.

So imagine that, experiencing regular orgasms can not only give us extreme pleasure, it can make us look younger, feel so much happier, and can also extend our lives.

On that note the LELO Global Sex Survey revealed that the older women get, the more satisfaction they receive from the act of sexual climax. More than 75 percent of those over the age of 60 surveyed claimed their satisfaction was far better than before. So that’s a good thing to bear in mind as we age in life — there have to be some benefits, right?

So again, as National Orgasm Day comes to a close for another year, it seems Nicki Minaj is concerned about women who don’t achieve climax, as reported on the Inquisitr recently.

[Image: CC BY-NC-ND 2.0 Tamara Álvarez]


Read more at http://www.inquisitr.com/2299585/uks-national-orgasm-day-sheds-light-on-benefits-of-sexual-climax/#RYgGkSG8EGqrZq6B.99

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It's National Orgasm Day. So will you be faking it? Yes, yes,YES! (and that's the men, too)
 

  • Today is National Orgasm day
  • 58% of women admit faking an orgasm, 93% say more than once
  • 10% of men also confess to having faked the big-O
  • People in the South fake more often than their Northern counterparts
  • Women and men in the South East biggest fakers with 18% admitting acting
  • Men fake least when they are single, while married women who fake least
More men fake it than you might think, with 10 admitting they have deceived their partner in bed

More men fake it than you might think, with 10 admitting they have deceived their partner in bed

Today may be National Orgasm Day but instead of jumping under the duvet and indulging in some unbridled passion, a large number of Brits will be feeling more 'uh oh' than the big O between the sheets tonight.

Despite the recent resurgence of sexual liberty thanks to the erotic novel Fifty Shades Of Grey, among other things, it seems that pleasure is staying firmly on the page when it comes to women’s sex lives, with 58 per cent of women admitting to faking an orgasm at least once during their relationship.

And out of the women who admit faking it between the sheets, a whopping 93 per cent said they had faked it more than once.

It is not just the ladies who are feigning pleasure during sex either, as 10 per of men admit to faking an orgasm 'regularly' too.

The main reason men admit to pretending to climax is to ‘avoid hurting their partner’s feelings’ (40 per cent) or they’re simply ‘too tired’ (35 per cent) to fully let go.

Interestingly it seems that men are more open to the idea of feigning their climax than women.

More men (72 per cent) who have never feigned a climax would consider doing it in the future, compared to 63 per cent of women who have never faked it.

 

Women, it would seem, are generally none the wiser to their partner's devious ways with only 16 per cent ever having suspected that their other half was faking it, despite 50 per cent of men in a relationship and 35 per cent of married men admitting they faking orgasm regularly

In contrast men, perhaps justifiably, have suspicious minds when it comes to their partner between the sheets, with over 58 per cent of men reporting they suspect that their partner has put on act in bed.

 
Unsurprisingly, more men rate their sex drive as 'high' than women

Unsurprisingly, more men rate their sex drive as 'high' than women

The survey, conducted by Ann Summers, also found a distinct divide between the North and the South of the UK with the south reporting a much higher rate of faking than their northern equivalents.

Women who live in Northern Ireland (6 per cent), Yorkshire (6 per cent) and the North East (5 per cent) are less likely to fake an orgasm than their southern counterparts, as the survey revealed that women from South East (18 per cent) and South West (10 per cent) are the biggest fakers.

And the geographic difference also applies to men with males from the South East (17 per cent) are also most likely to fake it compared to Welsh men (8 per cent) and those who reside in the North East (2 per cent).

But not all is lost – when it comes to having the most orgasms – single men have it the best, with only 14 per cent admitting to faking it compared to 50 per cent of partnered-up men.

 
More women orgasm alone than men, getting slightly fewer big-Os from their partner than  men

More women orgasm alone than men, getting slightly fewer big-Os from their partner than men

For women though, married life equals more orgasms. Only 12 per cent pretend in bed compared to 59 per cent of those in a relationship and 28 per cent of singletons.

Although many women are left high and dry between the sheets, over 40 per cent of men would feel concerned about their other half if they faked it and said they would ‘talk it through with their partner to find out what the real problem is’ if they caught their other half putting on an act. 

However, if you are ever tempted to fake the big O – screaming the bedroom door down is the biggest giveaway (52 per cent) followed by making loud noises (37 per cent) and crying (24 per cent).

 
Orgasm frequency

Orgasm frequency


 

ONE IN FOUR MEN SAY REGULAR ORGASMS ARE MORE IMPORTANT THAN BEING IN LOVE
 

 
 

  • For 39 per cent of Brits, inability to orgasm with their partner would contribute to a break-up
  • Less than half were 'very happy' with how often they climax
  • 69 per cent of women and 27 per cent of men have faked it

Forget love and companionship, for one in six men a relationship is dependent on performance between the sheets - and they would leave a partner who failed to satisfy them in bed.

Hitting the spot is so important to one in four men and one in five women that they rate having regular orgasms more highly than being in love.

But despite how important their sex lives are to their relationships, less than half of Britons admitted they were 'very happy' with how often they orgasm in a recent survey conducted by online retailer bondara.co.uk.

 
It's over: 39 per cent of Brits said failing to reach an orgasm with their partner would be a contributory factor in a break-up

It's over: 39 per cent of Brits said failing to reach an orgasm with their partner would be a contributory factor in a break-up

They quizzed 3800 British men and women and found that 16 per cent of men and 10 per cent of women would end a loving relationship if they failed to reach an orgasm with their partner, with a further 39 per cent of men and women stating it would be a contributory factor.

 

Although 60 per cent said they were 'very happy' when asked to rate their relationship in general, this figure fell by 17 per cent for men and 6 per cent for women when asked to rate the sexual side of their relationship.

When asked what affected their ability to reach orgasm, tiredness was the most common cause with 20 per cent of women and 23 per cent of men. Self-esteem issues ranked second for women followed by 'lack of sexual desire'.

For 15 per cent of men, hitting the booze caused a problem in the bedroom as being drunk prevented them from climaxing, while job worries affect 12 per cent of men.

 
Relax: Sex expert Joanna Coker said couples should have more fun and not get hung up on achieving the 'big O'

Relax: Sex expert Joanna Coker said couples should have more fun and not get hung up on achieving the 'big O'

One in four of those surveyed stated they felt under pressure to reach orgasm every time they have sex. As a result 27 per cent of men and 69 per cent of women have at some point faked an orgasm.

 

Joanna Coker, sex expert for Bondara.co.uk, said couples should try not to get so 'hung up' on achieving an orgasm.

She said: 'While having an orgasm is a wonderful part of sex, making love can still be enjoyable without the big 'O'.

'Try not to get too hung up on it as this will only make the situation worse. The ability to have an orgasm is affected by many factors as this survey shows, to be at your sexual peak keep healthy, try not to get overtired and avoid too much alcohol.'

Ms Coker added that the old adage of 'never going to bed on an argument' is true if you want a fulfilling sex life and couples shouldn't be afraid to talk to one another about issues between the sheets.

'Misunderstandings and conflicts can all affect your sexual life; it is hard to feel carefree and orgasm when you are conflicted or angry with your partner. If you're having difficulties talk about them and try to resolve them, leaving you freer to relax and enjoy your sex life,' she said.

Bondara conducted their research to mark next week's 'National Orgasm Day' and asked respondents worked for them in the bedroom.

For 47 per cent of women, spending more time on foreplay made a difference as well as more oral sex (38 per cent) and introducing sex toys (35 per cent).

For men, more oral sex (54 per cent) was a must, followed by spending more time on foreplay (43 per cent), introducing sex toys (42 per cent) and changing sexual positions (38 per cent). 

A separate survey by Ann Summers revealed how the sex lives of Brits varies around the country.

They found that men from the South East, aged between 25-34, who are in a relationship and have sex several times a week, fake an orgasm more regularly than sexually active, male singletons. 

Men from the South East (17 per cent) are also most likely to fake it compared to Welsh men (8 per cent) and those who reside in the North East (2 per cent). 

Meanwhile, women who live in Northern Ireland (6 per cent), Yorkshire (6 per cent) and the North East (5 per cent) are less likely to fake an orgasm than their southern counterparts, as the survey revealed that women from South East (18 per cent) and South West (10 per cent) are the biggest fakers.

Their poll of 500 people found that when it comes to having the most orgasms – single men have it the best, with only 14 per cent admitting to faking it compared to 50 per cent of those in a loving relationship.

In contrast for women, married life equals more orgasms, as only 12 per cent pretend in bed compared to 28 per cent of singletons.

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