Can wife open/take husband's mail

As I was restricted by the court, I cannot visit my apartment to get mails.

However, I just found that after my wife transferred all the money from our joint account, she's even open the mail that's writing to me and deposit the check into our joint account.

Is it even legal for her to do that?? How do I fight for my rights?

I double checked with the person who wrote me the check. Here's what she replied:

XXX,

I wrote all three checks out to XXX..

I addressed the envelope to XXX at your YYY NY address.

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• 她无权这么做, 你可以告她fraud -结婚十年- ♀ (82 bytes) () 06/08/2009 postreply 12:52:12

• 跟银行协商 -结婚十年- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/08/2009 postreply 12:54:42

• 协商 about what? -EXu- ♂ (0 bytes) () 06/08/2009 postreply 12:55:11

• sorry to confuse you, I don't mean to suggest -结婚十年- ♀ (167 bytes) () 06/08/2009 postreply 13:05:08

• if sue her could help me to get custodian my son. -EXu- ♂ (0 bytes) () 06/08/2009 postreply 13:06:22

• you need to calm down, if you can't control your -结婚十年- ♀ (392 bytes) () 06/08/2009 postreply 13:12:39

• if you do not want a divorce, then you do not -结婚十年- ♀ (501 bytes) () 06/08/2009 postreply 13:22:33

• I thought I already got the evidence, -EXu- ♂ (283 bytes) () 06/08/2009 postreply 13:27:44

• what might happend to her if being charged? -EXu- ♂ (100 bytes) () 06/08/2009 postreply 12:54:53

• 50/50, you deserve 50 of whatever you have -结婚十年- ♀ (415 bytes) () 06/08/2009 postreply 13:02:33

• The amount on the check is only 2000 -EXu- ♂ (45 bytes) () 06/08/2009 postreply 13:04:59

• That's fine, talk to a banker and get some -结婚十年- ♀ (175 bytes) () 06/08/2009 postreply 13:07:43

• 回复：Can wife open/take husband's mail -單身老貓- ♂ (791 bytes) () 06/08/2009 postreply 13:27:43

• Thank you laomao, we are not officially divorced yet -EXu- ♂ (303 bytes) () 06/08/2009 postreply 13:32:01

• Do you have a temporary order? -Aidanmom- ♀ (109 bytes) () 06/08/2009 postreply 13:34:26

• No, i do not have such order. -EXu- ♂ (48 bytes) () 06/08/2009 postreply 13:36:51

• I still don't think it's legal for her to do that. -AidanMom- ♀ (151 bytes) () 06/08/2009 postreply 13:48:34

• that's why i think she's stupid -EXu- ♂ (0 bytes) () 06/08/2009 postreply 13:50:20

• she doesn't need a signature to deposit money -ne0987- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/08/2009 postreply 15:19:49

• BTW, will this be a good idea? -EXu- ♂ (368 bytes) () 06/08/2009 postreply 13:34:05

• Talk to your lawyer first. -AidanMom- ♀ (90 bytes) () 06/08/2009 postreply 13:35:52

• that's a very bad idea if both of you already -认栽了- ♀ (218 bytes) () 06/08/2009 postreply 13:41:44

• this is what I think: we do not have too much asset -EXu- ♂ (337 bytes) () 06/08/2009 postreply 13:49:48

• stop saying she's stupid, especially when you think -结婚十年- ♀ (833 bytes) () 06/08/2009 postreply 14:01:38

• you are right. -EXu- ♂ (92 bytes) () 06/08/2009 postreply 14:13:05

• thank every one who gave suggestions. -EXu- ♂ (0 bytes) () 06/08/2009 postreply 13:41:43