自己不是律师,不要盲目下结论。OR有age gap defense.只要年龄大的一方不大于年龄小的三岁之内,两人发生关系就没有问题。
http://www.ageofconsent.us/state-laws/oregon-age-of-consent-laws/
163.345 Age as a defense in certain cases.
(1) In any prosecution under ORS 163.355, 163.365, 163.385, 163.395, 163.415, 163.425, 163.427 or 163.435 in which the
victim’s lack of consent was due solely to incapacity to consent by reason of being less than a specified age, it is a defense that the actor was less than three years older than the victim at the time of the alleged offense.
如果你按这个原因拒绝,可能触犯discrimination based on family status. 如果你想拒绝,请用其他理由,比如收入不够。