关键是“孩子的最好权益”best interests of the child.

无法预测胜算，看各人的情况，关键是小孩多大。外婆岁数大是个致命缺点。小孩自己的愿望也很重要。

孩子的权益因素英国法律规定如下
http://www.legislation.gov.uk/ukpga/1989/41/section/1

UK Children Act of 1989 defines:
1 Welfare of the child.

(3)In the circumstances mentioned in subsection (4), a court shall have regard in particular to—

(a)the ascertainable wishes and feelings of the child concerned (considered in the light of his age and understanding);

(b)his physical, emotional and educational needs;

(c)the likely effect on him of any change in his circumstances;

(d)his age, sex, background and any characteristics of his which the court considers relevant;

(e)any harm which he has suffered or is at risk of suffering;

(f)how capable each of his parents, and any other person in relation to whom the court considers the question to be relevant, is of meeting his needs;

(g)the range of powers available to the court under this Act in the proceedings in question.

所有跟帖： 

• 谢谢! 小孩7岁，外婆60多，姑姑40；外婆方请的律师面试小孩时，他表示想跟外婆 -NanjingReninUK- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/29/2015 postreply 13:28:57

• 废话，七岁小孩知道什么？谁问他就说跟谁，这个证据也拿得出手。 -柠檬椰子汁- ♂ (60 bytes) () 03/29/2015 postreply 13:30:42

• 柠檬厉害，一眼就看出我是管闲事的；这不因为案件发生在我居住的城市嘛，老太太来了以后，正好是我一熟人接待，私下 -NanjingReninUK- ♀ (93 bytes) () 03/29/2015 postreply 13:47:17

• 外婆比姑姑更亲吧？ -goingplace- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/29/2015 postreply 14:27:36

• 孩子跟祖父母长大不好，又没个舅舅阿姨的表兄弟姐妹的。 -如尘- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/29/2015 postreply 14:42:48

• 我觉得还是跟外婆好。姑姑未必亲，跟姑姑的俩孩子一起可能寄人篱下的感觉 -Manymore- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/29/2015 postreply 20:03:50

• +1 -N.- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/29/2015 postreply 21:03:26

• 在这个国家，这孩子永远是罪犯的儿子，他爸爸在监狱里，对他成长一点好处也没有。 -goingplace- ♀ (69 bytes) () 03/30/2015 postreply 04:44:33

• 你意思跟父亲断绝关系？我当年是选择了回上海当反革命家属 -如尘- ♀ (104 bytes) () 03/30/2015 postreply 08:47:32

• 他的情况跟你差太远了，一是父亲在监狱里，关键是他杀了他的妈妈。反革命有什么？文革时受迫害的多了， -goingplace- ♀ (90 bytes) () 03/30/2015 postreply 10:35:42

• 我爸是给关起来的。我那时还真不知道他有错没错，罪名“反对毛主席的革命路线”呢。 -如尘- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/30/2015 postreply 10:40:32

• My point：跟老人长住很没劲。我还是宁可被歧视。 -如尘- ♀ (6 bytes) () 03/30/2015 postreply 10:44:29

• 哈哈哈，一天4，5个鸡蛋，你没消化不良？ -arcsigh- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/30/2015 postreply 14:35:52

• 没有。从芦柴棒长成小胖子。回上海又瘦回去了。 -如尘- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/30/2015 postreply 14:46:34