Similarily, during lifetime the hu*****and and the wife "jointly" owns TV, couch, bank account, and when the hu*****and dies, these properties does not go through probate, is not counted as the hu*****and's estate, and are transfered to the wife directly.
This is why LZ won't get any money back. All assets by the hu*****and is jointly owned by the wife, passed onto the wife by joint ownership. The hu*****and has no individual ownership of any money to himself.