补充: 女儿在公立学校闯祸了

儿女真是一个简单的孩子.今天偶然说起那天的情形,说:
事发两周多前,那个后来写网的女孩说in front of xxxx and lots other kids, she was really annoyed at xxxx,she is going to make a 'Ihatexxxx' website. The xxxx agreed "Ok.....".
后来事发了,校长把xxxx叫来,接受大家的道歉.xxxx said "Its OK. I thought it was funny. A joke. I was on the site last night, and saw it. Then my mom came on, saw the website and got mad". 校长于是问"how did you feel about the website?" The boy repeated the same "I thought it was a joke". 校长又问"Did you feel hurt?". The boy thought a while, then shook his head slowly. 校长又说"Are you trying to say that the website was a joke because you want to cover up how much it hurt you ?". The boy thought for a while again. and nodded slowly.
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以上是儿女写的part (I told her to be as honest, as pricise as possible). 一直都未让她仔细回忆全过程 . 今天知道这些,心里真不是滋味.也更证明了事情源于玩笑,因那女孩刚学建网页.老师本应该正确引导他们,而不是把自己复杂的想法塞在孩子们简单的头脑中.
我不知我是否应该同学校谈起这些.

谢谢听我罗琐.

所有跟帖： 

• 你孩子的权益，应该是你最关心的吧？表越浇和越深。因为 -月半婆婆- ♀ (159 bytes) () 12/15/2009 postreply 22:13:31

• 可能是这样？：） (图) -木每- ♀ (191 bytes) () 12/15/2009 postreply 23:52:00

• MS这点我不同意你的，细节要赶紧落实在纸上。越清楚越好。 -木每- ♀ (100 bytes) () 12/16/2009 postreply 00:05:30

• 也对。 赫赫 -月半婆婆- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/16/2009 postreply 10:18:42

• Respectly disagree with you -linshui- ♂ (627 bytes) () 12/16/2009 postreply 07:30:39

• Her daughter just visited a website -eyehalfopen- ♂ (109 bytes) () 12/16/2009 postreply 08:37:39

• 您只看到一方的說法,您並不知道所有事件的真正事實. -單身老貓- ♂ (216 bytes) () 12/16/2009 postreply 09:24:11

• shame on you是照抄对方的， -eyehalfopen- ♂ (62 bytes) () 12/16/2009 postreply 10:06:19

• agree, shame on老貓只许周官放火，不许百姓点灯 :) -结婚十年- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/17/2009 postreply 10:39:10

• Did you read the post carefully? -peewee- ♀ (302 bytes) () 12/16/2009 postreply 09:04:31

• 冤，看一下网页就被株连 -ladude- ♂ (16 bytes) () 12/16/2009 postreply 10:25:26

• 9494, 就想当年如果咱听美国知音，就能被说成特务一样冤枉 -月半婆婆- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/16/2009 postreply 10:28:39

• co：冤，看一下网页就被株连 -木每- ♀ (23 bytes) () 12/16/2009 postreply 10:58:51

• shame on you? what the heck! are you insane? -结婚十年- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/17/2009 postreply 10:35:59

• send a letter to your local sanate -ne0987- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/16/2009 postreply 18:00:17

• 自己的孩子，自己最了解，相信孩子，详细自己 -结婚十年- ♀ (432 bytes) () 12/17/2009 postreply 10:30:31

• 所言极是！我管那叫自虐。还对disagree的摆出一副站在道德制高点的姿态。 -木每- ♀ (16 bytes) () 12/18/2009 postreply 00:53:03

• agree! -curiousGeorge2- ♂ (0 bytes) () 12/18/2009 postreply 12:51:03

• comego, what is the current status? -ncpga- ♂ (15 bytes) () 12/17/2009 postreply 12:33:31

• 回复：补充: 女儿在公立学校闯祸了 -comego- ♀ (376 bytes) () 12/17/2009 postreply 19:35:34

• here is what I think -ncpga- ♂ (272 bytes) () 12/17/2009 postreply 22:14:12