You need a job

I think you all you want is his attention. The way you did it may be unacceptable to him. Talk and discuss with your hubby. See a marriage counseller also helps. If he thinks he is the bread winner so he can treat you like that, call 911 and get rid of him. If he is just tired the way you tried to get attention, work out a better way with him. I think you two have a break down in communication and don't really know how to nuture your marriage for now.