Don't wait. Leave now.

Please accept my best wishes for you. You are 100% right on that genetic assumption. He grew up in an abusive family and will be abusive later. So we don't want to drag your precious children into this tragedy. Be careful. Like you said, he is crazy because he knows you can't be intimidated by him and you are stronger now. He may get more violent if you are leaving. However, get your documents such as passpord, license, phone numbers, cash, bank statements, etc ready so you can leave whenever you need to. Find the phone number of a domestic violence shelter near you just in case you have to go there. The shelter is free and they'll help you with the legal paper work. Some of them will help you with job training and immigration paper work. Take care of yourself. Many women lose their lives when they ignored the dangerous sign of the abuser. So be careful. This is in America, the law is on your side. Beside, there are many men out there with kind hearts. Don't lose hope for the future. Talk to a friend may help too. Also, never feel ashamed of it. Remember, it's not your problem, it's the abuser's problem. Take care.

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