To 孩子抚养权

来源: EXu 2009-06-03 07:34:01 [] [旧帖] [给我悄悄话] 本文已被阅读: 次 (1543 bytes)
I'm experiencing the exactly same thing as you now. However, I am the hu*****and and my wife claimed I hit her and called up the police. We have one 2.5 years old son.

This just happened over the weekend (5/30/2009). I swear in the name of my son. I did not hit or threaten my wife. When the police came, she changed word to the police that I didn't hit her but I throw things into her. (but she didn't tell the story that my mom-in-law thrown a bag at me and I just throw it back to my wife.)

These are my own words, and she probably has her version. However, I'll tell you guys some more horrible things happened and I have clear poof on that.

I was arrested and spent horrible 24 hours in the prison. I was being charged as something called family disorder. (I dont' remember what it was exactly called, and it is something causes my wife/son feel phisically threaten.)
Because of court order, I cannot see my son and my wife. I cannot live in our apartment and have to find a place else where. I cannot try to communicate with my son/wife in any way.

We have a joint account where we have both of our paycheck direct deposited in and we use the account for all our expense. When I was released, I found she transfer out almost all the money. In this case, I virtually have no source to get cash and I cannot go back and live in my apartment. (It was month end and we just have our paycheck deposited. The next paycheck I will get will be on 6/15.) Now I'm living on a bailout from my relatives.

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回复:To 孩子抚养权 -EXu- 给 EXu 发送悄悄话 (933 bytes) () 06/03/2009 postreply 07:43:27

she doesn't let my parents come just to satisfy her sister's fee -EXu- 给 EXu 发送悄悄话 (60 bytes) () 06/03/2009 postreply 09:27:11

Also she provided incorrect statements to the police -EXu- 给 EXu 发送悄悄话 (254 bytes) () 06/03/2009 postreply 07:46:40

When we argue, she keep saying the following -EXu- 给 EXu 发送悄悄话 (490 bytes) () 06/03/2009 postreply 08:00:09

回复:To 孩子抚养权 -EXu- 给 EXu 发送悄悄话 (650 bytes) () 06/03/2009 postreply 08:10:54

Ok. You should have credit card, right? -needwait..- 给 needwait.. 发送悄悄话 needwait.. 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/03/2009 postreply 12:24:05

yes, i do -EXu- 给 EXu 发送悄悄话 (627 bytes) () 06/03/2009 postreply 14:31:36

也贴到“人到中年”和“我爱我家”,那里的人经验多。 同情你, -qbert- 给 qbert 发送悄悄话 (69 bytes) () 06/03/2009 postreply 08:18:35

Thank you, there's a long way for me to go. I'm still <30 -EXu- 给 EXu 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 06/03/2009 postreply 08:25:07

你这长工当地,赶紧把她的家人送走,不行就离 -zw63- 给 zw63 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 06/03/2009 postreply 08:47:38

already made my mind, we will file for divorce for sure. -EXu- 给 EXu 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 06/03/2009 postreply 08:49:23

她这样做(报警),我猜她会拿到100%孩子的监护权。 -qbert- 给 qbert 发送悄悄话 (66 bytes) () 06/03/2009 postreply 08:56:37

i lives in NYC, and the law here favor females more -EXu- 给 EXu 发送悄悄话 (169 bytes) () 06/03/2009 postreply 09:01:56

回复:To 孩子抚养权 -xuanji- 给 xuanji 发送悄悄话 xuanji 的博客首页 (202 bytes) () 06/03/2009 postreply 09:18:55

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