非常感谢，very well said

Teach your child to say "no" or stay silent, to love himself, to put himself priority number one, to have his own ideas and put them into actions. Most of all, take responsibility for himself. 
 

太希望能教会孩子这些了，只是不知道该怎么做，也许这就是个教孩子在实践中学习的契机。如果有这方面的好的书籍推荐也非常感谢