耐心给孩子一段时间, 有的成熟晚电。也可找心理医生谈谈。首先还是要搞好关系, 让家里充满欢乐,

这样才可能以后有好的交通和正面影响。十四岁(?)可以打工。也可以选些箴言(圣经)的话与他们分享。

Proverbs 12 NLT

14 Wise words bring many benefits,
    and hard work brings rewards.

15 Fools think their own way is right,
    but the wise listen to others.

16 A fool is quick-tempered,
    but a wise person stays calm when insulted.

17 An honest witness tells the truth;
    a false witness tells lies.

18 Some people make cutting remarks,
    but the words of the wise bring healing.

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