not like a order, especially those smart person, these think they're Mr. right, Mrs right, ask other people to be practical, not subjective and judgemental, to make a request not a judgement.
the safest request is to ask help improve sth, so it does not look like an acusation. still trying!!!!
smart people are very hard to deal with. Trust me. 2 smart people together, maybe very rich, but sure would be very miserable. I myself is too smart already. have a very low EQ myself
