Well, thanks for your kind words, I am not that intelligent, but

it is true that I am very hard working.

I said I just actting like A is because I also have a very bad temper toward my hu*****and. When he lost his job in 2002, I let him moved to my house, so that he could have enough money to support his ex and his two kids. I believe that is a good deed, but on the other hand, I pushed him to find a job very hard , I used to call him twice a day to check on him, so how many jobs he had applied.