你这一生和马桶分不开了 - Happyyl -, 鸡汤, 我最喜欢的房间.

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我是用英文构思的,就直接用英文写了.

For many of us from mainland China, no matter from small, medium, or large families, from cities or countries, sharing rooms is very typical during our childhood and teenage time. My family started from a two bedroomed unit, later to a 3-bedroomed one. Since then a family of two children, my younger sister and I each had a bedroom. But in fact my bedroom did not only belong to myself, it was only the room where I sleep and study, so was my sister’s. A lot family stuffs were jammed into every corner of the not so big building unit. During daytime, my parents constantly got into my room taking whatever needed. My bedroom door remained open for most times including bedtimes.

When got older but still lingered to our parents, we started to grow more independency and also needed more space and to expend our mental territory. Within the very limited physical distance, privacy was only a luxury dream, or, I might not even have had a dream of privacy. Don’t laugh at me, hey, babie, I was born and grew up this way. From positive side, this habitat might help to build up tighter family bound of common Chinese families. Everywhere and anytime, you could feel the watchful eyes of your parents. Countless times I got caught playing during study times. Did I really have play time? Not much if not none, I thought my times were only dining and studying. Parents sneaked in and watched over your shoulders, hey, there went your novels. Don’t get me wrong, I love my parents for whole heart and soul, only the lingering love might sometimes tired me up a little bit.

When at home, nowhere and no time, I was not under the supervision and monitor of my parents, except… … except one place and one time… …the washroom and stooling time. Being adolescence I had all good reasons to latch the door when I was in. I cherished the feeling of releasing burden and the moment truly by myself. Though I had been warned from time to time not to take any books into the washroom, I always managed to sneak one, even during hot summer time wearing only a short. Don’t ask me how. I always spent more time than I should inside the washroom, on the toilet to be exact, enjoyed the moment of quietness and solitariness. Less than half of my reading before my 20s might be done on toilets.

Do you remember to write any family topic assignments at school? Several times for me, in my middle school as a growing teen with more of own mindset when I received the writing assignment “ Your favorite room”, I with no hesitation wrote: My favorite room is the washroom, my favorite seat is the toilet… It is said earlier living habits could last for a whole life. It’s so true to me, the toilet complexity has been affecting me till now.

Memory is a bittersweet thing, innocence has left me long long time ago, life is a one way ticket, there is no way going back. But whenever I remember the good old days, it’s all full of happiness and sweetness. Bitterness? I forgot somehow… …

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我问你走步机的心得体会,你整一篇马桶出来 -阿尤- 给 阿尤 发送悄悄话 阿尤 的博客首页 阿尤 的个人群组 (0 bytes) () 01/14/2021 postreply 04:23:39

我不用,我老婆用得三天打鱼两天晒网,最近吃得也不多,体重也没怎么长,不知道走步机起多大作用 -移花接木- 给 移花接木 发送悄悄话 移花接木 的博客首页 移花接木 的个人群组 (0 bytes) () 01/14/2021 postreply 04:50:53

马桶里炖鸡汤,减肥良方啊哈哈哈 -扬之水- 给 扬之水 发送悄悄话 扬之水 的博客首页 扬之水 的个人群组 (75 bytes) () 01/14/2021 postreply 04:54:56

It is a beautiful writing 大赞大赞 -疏影笑寒- 给 疏影笑寒 发送悄悄话 疏影笑寒 的博客首页 疏影笑寒 的个人群组 (0 bytes) () 01/14/2021 postreply 05:10:49

A very good memory and writing -Happyyl- 给 Happyyl 发送悄悄话 Happyyl 的博客首页 Happyyl 的个人群组 (293 bytes) () 01/14/2021 postreply 05:17:38

好浪漫,像很多仙侠剧里的画面,只是歇息的树种不一样 -hibiskus- 给 hibiskus 发送悄悄话 hibiskus 的博客首页 hibiskus 的个人群组 (0 bytes) () 01/14/2021 postreply 10:56:13

于哪里 -M45- 给 M45 发送悄悄话 M45 的博客首页 M45 的个人群组 (177 bytes) () 01/14/2021 postreply 06:16:41

明知故问 -扬之水- 给 扬之水 发送悄悄话 扬之水 的博客首页 扬之水 的个人群组 (177 bytes) () 01/14/2021 postreply 06:29:30

写得very 不错 -许你一世欢颜- 给 许你一世欢颜 发送悄悄话 许你一世欢颜 的博客首页 许你一世欢颜 的个人群组 (0 bytes) () 01/14/2021 postreply 06:37:53

写得好!我现在最喜欢的地方是 -偶尔掉链子- 给 偶尔掉链子 发送悄悄话 偶尔掉链子 的博客首页 偶尔掉链子 的个人群组 (17 bytes) () 01/14/2021 postreply 06:39:49

练歌房在衣橱还是太在意自己形象? -Happyyl- 给 Happyyl 发送悄悄话 Happyyl 的博客首页 Happyyl 的个人群组 (0 bytes) () 01/14/2021 postreply 07:03:35

教授,人家凡尔赛衣橱很大~~~ -紫色海洋- 给 紫色海洋 发送悄悄话 紫色海洋 的博客首页 紫色海洋 的个人群组 (0 bytes) () 01/14/2021 postreply 07:07:11

一点都不凡 甚至不是我的 -偶尔掉链子- 给 偶尔掉链子 发送悄悄话 偶尔掉链子 的博客首页 偶尔掉链子 的个人群组 (88 bytes) () 01/14/2021 postreply 07:11:20

nice hideout -hibiskus- 给 hibiskus 发送悄悄话 hibiskus 的博客首页 hibiskus 的个人群组 (0 bytes) () 01/14/2021 postreply 10:59:05

衬衫颜色太赞了呜哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈。。。。。。。 -Maddux- 给 Maddux 发送悄悄话 Maddux 的博客首页 Maddux 的个人群组 (0 bytes) () 01/14/2021 postreply 14:32:54

二师姐也是坐着唱歌啊,气功也是到了化境 -移花接木- 给 移花接木 发送悄悄话 移花接木 的博客首页 移花接木 的个人群组 (0 bytes) () 01/14/2021 postreply 14:40:35

墙上应该贴一层海绵减少回音 -Happyyl- 给 Happyyl 发送悄悄话 Happyyl 的博客首页 Happyyl 的个人群组 (0 bytes) () 01/14/2021 postreply 16:07:58

唱歌~ -偶尔掉链子- 给 偶尔掉链子 发送悄悄话 偶尔掉链子 的博客首页 偶尔掉链子 的个人群组 (0 bytes) () 01/14/2021 postreply 07:07:57

你很少发歌的感觉,多发点给我们听听 -一荷- 给 一荷 发送悄悄话 一荷 的博客首页 一荷 的个人群组 (0 bytes) () 01/14/2021 postreply 07:48:45

下次出现"于橱"或者"于大橱"的艺名,那就是你了。 -ozxlu- 给 ozxlu 发送悄悄话 ozxlu 的博客首页 ozxlu 的个人群组 (0 bytes) () 01/14/2021 postreply 14:02:02

写得好!据说 sound of silence 就是在厕所里的时候萌芽,写成的,哥们儿不孤独 -天玉之- 给 天玉之 发送悄悄话 天玉之 的博客首页 天玉之 的个人群组 (310 bytes) () 01/14/2021 postreply 08:10:14

Bond! -移花接木- 给 移花接木 发送悄悄话 移花接木 的博客首页 移花接木 的个人群组 (0 bytes) () 01/14/2021 postreply 14:44:01

我也喜欢我的童年,很愉快。至于厕所, ... -一荷- 给 一荷 发送悄悄话 一荷 的博客首页 一荷 的个人群组 (0 bytes) () 01/14/2021 postreply 08:14:09

不可随便说,很黄 -移花接木- 给 移花接木 发送悄悄话 移花接木 的博客首页 移花接木 的个人群组 (0 bytes) () 01/14/2021 postreply 14:43:20

实至名归 -小小月- 给 小小月 发送悄悄话 小小月 的博客首页 小小月 的个人群组 (0 bytes) () 01/14/2021 postreply 08:52:03

有人说这是凡体 -Zhuzitaba- 给 Zhuzitaba 发送悄悄话 Zhuzitaba 的博客首页 Zhuzitaba 的个人群组 (200 bytes) () 01/14/2021 postreply 09:09:00

+1 -wingreen- 给 wingreen 发送悄悄话 wingreen 的博客首页 wingreen 的个人群组 (0 bytes) () 01/14/2021 postreply 09:13:56

非常有趣的少年回忆,岁月走远,记忆更清晰,越发美好。记得我 -爸爸的草鞋- 给 爸爸的草鞋 发送悄悄话 爸爸的草鞋 的博客首页 爸爸的草鞋 的个人群组 (927 bytes) () 01/14/2021 postreply 09:11:23

现在很多感情好的夫妻都会分房睡,条件好了,需要自由自在不受干扰 -一荷- 给 一荷 发送悄悄话 一荷 的博客首页 一荷 的个人群组 (0 bytes) () 01/14/2021 postreply 09:38:22

13岁!一天女儿问我女孩什么年龄最讨厌?我说18吧!“No.13”,那天就是她13岁生日! -Happyyl- 给 Happyyl 发送悄悄话 Happyyl 的博客首页 Happyyl 的个人群组 (0 bytes) () 01/14/2021 postreply 16:13:08

OMD! I have to check dictionary for some words! -ozxlu- 给 ozxlu 发送悄悄话 ozxlu 的博客首页 ozxlu 的个人群组 (70 bytes) () 01/14/2021 postreply 09:28:12

你们相信我竟然在洋人公司工作了二十多年吗? -ozxlu- 给 ozxlu 发送悄悄话 ozxlu 的博客首页 ozxlu 的个人群组 (0 bytes) () 01/14/2021 postreply 09:33:32

好几个单词不认识,咬不准含义。 -ozxlu- 给 ozxlu 发送悄悄话 ozxlu 的博客首页 ozxlu 的个人群组 (0 bytes) () 01/14/2021 postreply 09:36:27

甚至还搜索了一下:babie 啥意思?词尾是不是少了一个s? -ozxlu- 给 ozxlu 发送悄悄话 ozxlu 的博客首页 ozxlu 的个人群组 (0 bytes) () 01/14/2021 postreply 09:45:52

严谨!搜了一下,babie 是俚语,“小可爱”的意思 -hibiskus- 给 hibiskus 发送悄悄话 hibiskus 的博客首页 hibiskus 的个人群组 (925 bytes) () 01/14/2021 postreply 11:08:28

:-)反正不正规, -移花接木- 给 移花接木 发送悄悄话 移花接木 的博客首页 移花接木 的个人群组 (0 bytes) () 01/14/2021 postreply 14:47:15

咱这里不都是吗? 有开中餐馆的老板吗? -移花接木- 给 移花接木 发送悄悄话 移花接木 的博客首页 移花接木 的个人群组 (0 bytes) () 01/14/2021 postreply 14:41:57

不少青少年都在卫生间呆得过久,让父母头疼... Man cave 至关重要,盈盈等人除外:D -hibiskus- 给 hibiskus 发送悄悄话 hibiskus 的博客首页 hibiskus 的个人群组 (0 bytes) () 01/14/2021 postreply 11:03:47

关键只有一个卫生间 -Happyyl- 给 Happyyl 发送悄悄话 Happyyl 的博客首页 Happyyl 的个人群组 (327 bytes) () 01/14/2021 postreply 16:21:24

读英文有难度,就先点个赞吧 -爪四哥- 给 爪四哥 发送悄悄话 爪四哥 的博客首页 爪四哥 的个人群组 (0 bytes) () 01/14/2021 postreply 12:48:08

- Don't ask me how. - How??? -婧芊- 给 婧芊 发送悄悄话 婧芊 的博客首页 婧芊 的个人群组 (0 bytes) () 01/14/2021 postreply 14:42:20

没法跟你比,占尽资源优势 -移花接木- 给 移花接木 发送悄悄话 移花接木 的博客首页 移花接木 的个人群组 (0 bytes) () 01/14/2021 postreply 14:49:57

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